CHOOSE BOTH!
Why the heck not?!
Your business SHOULD be earning you the satisfaction and money you desire. Aaaand, you SHOULD have a fabulous, fulfilling personal life.
If you’re like most small business owners your ‘shoulds’ revolve more around working harder, sacrificing time and pleasure, and quite possibly feeling lack, stress and resentment 
‘Shoulds’ are simply VERY POWERFUL beliefs and perceptions that are only real because we CHOOSE them. There are two kinds of ‘shoulds’: the kind that serve us and the kind that don’t.
Success and happiness are as close for you as changing the perceptions (aka: SHOULDS) that don’t serve you. Period.
But, but, but…
So then why doesn’t EVERYONE just challenge their SHOULDS and change them!?
Because it’s UNCOMFORTABLE and we want INSTANT GRATIFICATION!
We analyze, we justify, we protect and defend our habits and beliefs at all costs because they DEFINE WHO WE ARE …and sadly the cost is success and happiness at the level we desire.
As a (mostly) reformed CONTROL FREAK I know this truth from living it and from watching my clients live it. Yay for us!
The big question is, HOW BAD do YOU want radical positive change? But I mean, really. Like reeeeally?? The fact is this: “Good intention is nothing without action, and change requires action that’s OUT of your comfort zone.”
A little scared? Scared is good …and willingness in the face of fear is necessary.
You’re NOT ALONE. Whether it be me or someone else, there is SO much brilliant support available out there to be had, so GO AND GET SOME!
Your kick-ass business and super-fabulous life is WAITING!
Jenifer
